We spent the morning casting off, maneurvering out of the slip and around the marina and docking. Having a lot of rather large and expensive boats that close to you while you're trying to do figure eights in the marina is a little nerve wracking but we all managed successfully.
After lunch, we hit the water again and for the following 3 hours, the water hit us back. Those two additional knots in windspeed resulted in much choppier waters. When you see that wave coming, there's really not much you can do but hold on and take it. And take it. And just when you started drying of, have some more. I actually did bring my rain gear. It just happened to be below in the cabin. And really, there was NO way I was getting up to go down to the cabin at this point.
At my turn at the helm, I focused intently on "to head up, move the tiller toward the main. to bear away, move the tiller away from the main." It generally served me well, better than the day before, until we start heading downwind. I just can't seem to hold the course and complete the jibe without sending us all over the place. I leave my turn at the helm a little deflated. And after getting another dousing of bay water, my focus and interest was lost. I really just wanted to head back and take off my 20 pound jeans (yes, that was sheer stupidity on my part to wear jeans). But we stay on for another hour or so. I wouldn't say it got better for me, but I learned to just tough through the discomfort and look on the brighter, albeit, wetter, side of things. I was still learning to sail and I was still having fun.